The TV Dads Who Raised Us (Kind Of)
- Mikki Caplan-Zaple
- Jun 12
- 3 min read
When we think back on growing up, it wasn’t just our own dads who shaped how we thought about fatherhood — it was the TV dads who were basically in our living rooms every week. Some were goofy, some were tough, some were way too involved in their kids’ love lives, but they all taught us a little something about parenting (whether they meant to or not).
So this Father’s Day, let’s give a little love to the TV dads who helped raise a generation:
Danny Tanner (Full House)

The ultimate neat freak with a heart of gold. Danny somehow balanced being a single dad, grief, a full-time job, and raising three very different daughters. Whether it was giving DJ advice about body image, helping Stephanie navigate friendship drama, or just showing up with a hug after a hard day — Danny was always there (with a dustbuster).
Carl Winslow (Family Matters)

He was a Chicago cop with endless patience — mostly for his family, and occasionally for Steve Urkel. Carl was the dad who taught Eddie responsibility, Laura self-respect, and all of us the importance of family dinners (even when your annoying neighbor walks right in).
Philip Banks (The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air)

Uncle Phil wasn’t just the tough-but-loving head of the Banks household — he showed Will what a stable, present father figure looked like. Who can forget the heartbreaking “Why don’t he want me?” scene — and Uncle Phil stepping up with a hug that crushed all of us?
Jason Seaver (Growing Pains)

Jason managed to be calm, level-headed, and supportive — even while working as a psychiatrist from home surrounded by teen drama. He listened to Mike’s schemes, Carol’s stress, and Ben’s constant questions — all without losing his mind (or his sense of humor).
Dan Conner (Roseanne)

Dan was every blue-collar dad trying to keep it together. He wasn’t afraid to show his emotions, and he supported Becky, Darlene, and DJ through job losses, teenage rebellion, and real-life struggles. His quiet strength and love for Roseanne were constant.
Red Forman (That ‘70s Show)

Yes, Red was full of sarcasm and foot-in-ass threats, but under that tough shell was a guy who truly loved Eric (and tolerated all his friends). He taught personal responsibility, hard work, and occasionally — when no one was looking — showed genuine affection.
Steven Keaton (Family Ties)

A true example of parenting through differences. Steven never shamed Alex for his very different political views — instead, he modeled respect, patience, and how to have real conversations even when you disagreed (a lost art these days).
Jack Arnold (The Wonder Years)

Jack was that emotionally reserved dad so many of us recognized. He worked hard, showed up for his kids quietly, and when Kevin needed advice, Jack delivered simple, honest guidance. His love was steady, even if it wasn’t always spoken.
Homer Simpson (The Simpsons)

Ok, not exactly "Father of the Year," but Homer’s devotion to Bart, Lisa, and Maggie was never in question — even if his parenting style involved donuts, TV, and the occasional strangling. And let’s face it — every exhausted parent can relate to him just a little.
They weren’t perfect — but neither are real dads.They loved hard, messed up often, and kept showing up. And in a weird way, these TV dads helped model what fatherhood looked like for millions of us.
Happy Father’s Day to the dads who raised us — and to the ones still doing it.